I guess it’s because we are leaving soon, but we suddenly
became very popular this holiday season. Last year, we didn’t get invited to a
single family party or celebration from anyone, this year we had three
invitations for Christmas Eve alone. I think it’s because we’re on our way out,
but it was still nice to feel wanted. We decided to spend the eve, called Nochebuena (good night), with our host
family next door, partly because they asked us first and partly because it’s
close to home. It turned out to be an unforgettable time.
Host mom (center pink) with her two sons and some grandkids |
They wanted us to accompany them to their church in the
evening for some kind of Christmas program that the kids were putting on. While
we generally try to avoid awkward religious events, we said yes, figuring it
might be sort of like a pageant of the birth of Jesus or something. Well, not
quite. The “church, “ if you could call it that, was just a bunch of plastic
chairs set up in someone’s covered car port. While it hasn’t been particularly
cold this year, that night was damp and windy with a threat of rain, and we,
supposing the church would be inside, hadn’t really worn our warmest attire and
were a bit uncomfortable. Added to that, we were the only gringos in sight at
this small mass, so we stood out like giants.
We watched as the youngest kids sang a few short songs
together led by the head sister of the church, including our little host sister.
The teenagers, including our host brother then put on a little play of a
parable from the bible. It was the one about the man with two sons, one who
leaves home and wastes all his money then comes crawling back, while the other
stays at home and works, and in the end the father loves them both equally. Not
exactly the first noel, but the kids really hammed it up and it was
entertaining. They sang Hark the Herald Angels Sing, in Spanish, so I just
hummed along to the melody. Then there was a sermon/speech from some guy and
that was it, pretty short and sweet. At one point, they made all the “visitors”
stand up to acknowledge them, and our host mom gave us the evil eye, so we
stood awkwardly as everyone stared at the gringos. Then they did a “introduce
yourself to your neighbors” thing and it seemed like everyone came up to us
specifically to shake our hands and say Feliz Navidad, it felt sort of like we
were royalty or something, only embarrassingly so. The service ended with everyone
receiving a nacatamal (a tamal with
chicken, rice and vegetables inside) and some sugary coffee. I sort of think
our host mom just wanted to drag out her gringos to show everyone, because she
looked pretty proud of us, but it was still nice of them to invite us.
We headed back to our host family’s place at around 8:30 pm
to eat the Nochebuena feast. I think
I’ve mentioned this before, but Christmas Eve is the bigger holiday here.
People go to church, have a big dinner, exchange gifts and stay up until
midnight to light off fireworks. Traditional fare is nacatamales, which I previously despised because they throw chunks
of chicken in them, bone included, and I more than once nearly choked to death
on them. But this year, I sort of savored them. The president of my women’s
group brought us some for lunch, and she knew I didn’t like the bones, so hers
were bone-free and quite delicious. But nacatamales
aren’t the main meal, more like an appetizer I guess – everyone can eat tons of
them.
Nacatamal y una coca |
Anyway, so we waited around forever at our family’s house
for all the family members to arrive. Our host mom (who is more a grandma age)
has 4 grown kids who live in the same housing complex plus all their kids. So
despite dinner being done and ready, we had to wait for everyone to arrive to
eat, which didn’t take place until close to 10. We spent the time in between
playing with the adorable kids, the youngest of whom, Grecia, whom I liken to a
Honduran Cindy Lou Who, took a liking to Nolan and was begging to be played
with all evening. Adorable! Dinner was a mix of Honduran and American
favorites, roasted chicken with stuffing, meatloaf, tacos, tortillas and some
gross salad of broccoli, Kraft cheese, bacon and mayo – blegh! Plus orange soda
– not to be forgotten. It was decent food, not what I would have cooked and
probably not really “traditional” Honduran either.
Nicki and Grecia Lou Who |
Nolan the tickle monster |
After dinner came the
presents! I guess because they have a bigger family, they did a Secret Santa
gift exchange thing, with the kids getting some extras. They even bought a few
gifts for us, some t-shirts and some really nice embroidered napkins – which
was nice, but we felt silly that we didn’t bring any gifts for anyone. The
funniest was when one of the sons was giving his kid a gift and he said,
“Choosing your gift was easy, I broke it in the store and had to buy it!” and
gave his 5 year old son a broken picture frame. The kid looked like he would
burst into tears, then his dad whipped out a new bike from the back room and
the kid loved it! So sweet! We finished off the event with some rompopo – I
guess it’s the same as eggnog - and photos with the family and kids.
Glad to get this instead of an old picture frame |
The night wasn’t over, even though it was 11:30 pm. We were
headed next door to our host mom’s brother’s house for more celebrating. We
were stuffed, but felt obliged to come along. At the brother’s house we were
served pepsi, some punch with fruit in it, some fizzy wine that was like a wine
cooler, then another nacatamal. I
thought I was going to explode and/or vomit. We finally were able to head home
just before the fireworks started going off at midnight. We watched from our
bedroom window for just a few minutes before dropping off to sleep. After all,
where we come from, if you’re not asleep, Santa won’t visit your house. Maybe
the Hondurans haven’t figured this out yet.
Host mom's daughter and more grandkids |
Christmas day, we woke up late, and enjoyed mimosas while
watching It’s a Wonderful Life,
typically a Christmas Eve movie, but since we were otherwise occupied the night
before, we had to squeeze it in that morning before watching A Christmas Story. Instead of our
traditional eggs benedict, we had prepared a simple French toast with
strawberry compote. We took our host family some banana bread as a thank you
for inviting us to Nochebuena, and in
return they gave us some Tres Leches cake.
We had a relaxing afternoon and roasted a chicken for dinner, which we are still
eating today. It was a nice combination of half-Honduran, half- our own
Christmas, and a great way to start wrapping up our time here.
loved reading this! Look forward to seeing you soon upon your arrival back in "the states" ; )
ReplyDeleteDeb Ochs
Elian got a bike!!! so awesome. Glad you enjoyed your Christmas with the Knights!! Feliz anio nuevo! -Lauren
ReplyDeleteGlad you both bad a great time. I loved the way the dad tricked is son with the bike. See yall soon.
ReplyDeleteQue tengan un buen y seguro viaje! Saca muchas fotos y da muchos abrazos a su familia hondureña
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